/li> DEAR BELI’m 22 with a very close circle of five friends the same age. The problem: I think one of my best friends has mental health issues. I have no idea how to help her and worry a lot about what she will do. She went to a very privileged boarding school (indeed, she had boarded for most of her life) but was moved to our school at the age of 16 because her family had money problems. When we were 19, I started to notice she was very negative about men and seemed unlucky in love. 'When we were 19, I started to notice she was very negative about men and seemed unlucky in love' Over the next three years, things went from bad to worse. She never sustained a relationship but always wanted one — pushing, trying too hard and clinging until she put men off. Her parents divorced, then her family lost all their money which left them with nothing — all the while her behaviour was becoming worse. It’s now got to the point that whenever our little group spends time with her